Love Marriage vs. Arranged Marriage
I would not say Arrange marriage or love marriage
It totally depends upon individual’s life and their own choice. And apart from choice destiny is something which plays a role secretly in every one’s life! See if anyone is in relationship and want to take it ahead they will always try their best. But many got fail due to their parent’s pressure or cheat and many other reasons too.
If any person got success and he or she are getting married to his or her first love. Then still there will we some issues. Like hates from family. . So in some marriages couple has to fight with all this negativity and ups and downs.
And even I have heard many love marriage cases couple gets divorced just because for what so ever reason girl or boy are not able to adjust themselves with each other. Love marriage also has positive sides like if both are practical and understanding each other and also if families understand than life can be easy.
Both Arrange marriages have negative and positive sides as well
Dowry is the main negative point and I think dowry can be a common point in love and arranges marriage both if and only if people are mentally sick. Here it’s a new story arrange marriage can be real thrill because you don’t know the person very well and family too. As time goes you get to know each other and family and adjust yourself with each other. Likes and dislikes!
Sometimes it gets hard and it leads to divorce as well. Same way I would again say if boy and girl are good enough with each other than life will be easy. Although it’s not easy as PEOPLE think off. So if you ask me personally to choose one?? I wouldn’t choose any of them.
Love or arrange you just have to work it out in marriage that’s it.
It own destiny and when it comes to you work on it by helping each other.



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